There is so much press about college that it’s hard to know what to believe or where to begin the process.
The number of choices may appear overwhelming, or not be sufficiently broad. Students and parents alike are often confused about college admissions criteria and whether or not their student will be admitted. Paying for college is also a major concern. Students with learning disabilities, ADHD, and other challenges have special considerations when applying to college. Working with a professional will help keep the process focused and alleviate much of the stress involved with applying to and getting into college.
Perhaps more than anything, both students and families need moral support during this process. I have yet to meet a family not needing this type of support. Students and parents can become anxious and need to be reassured that everything will be okay. Sometimes students procrastinate and need someone other than parents to drive the process, keep them organized, and hold them to deadlines. Questions arise and the family needs credible and honest answers. The relationship between students, parents, and us as consultants is critical. This is more than just about “getting things done.”
As lead consultant for college counseling at RNG International, I, Rebecca, am working directly with students. These are just some of the ways I work with students as they go through the college application process:
Let RNG be your guide through the overwhelming process so that you can focus on what’s important, your family! CONTACT US and let’s talk.
More about Rebecca and her credentials for college advising
More and more people are entering the business of college advising, and students and families must choose their consultant wisely. It’s not only important that personalities click, but also that the consultant is qualified to guide the student. Here are some things to know about Rebecca (Becky). She:
You can read more about her bio here.
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*Independent Educational Consultant Association, Higher Education Consultants Association, National Association of College Admissions Counseling, and International Association of College Admissions Counseling
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I wanted to tell you I spent last weekend in Arizona having a reunion of friends from Beijing days 20 years ago…..and guess who was there…a dear friend…..I said, you don’t happen to know Becky Grappo and her words, exactly, “She saved my life!!!!” I thought you would like to know that….she is in fine…”
Speaking of professionals, please accept my sincere gratitude for your brilliant work. This all really started happening after you challenged our son to give you something concrete to work with. Your strategy was perfectly planned and executed. Good Show!”
I just wanted to thank you for getting me through the most painful and difficult thing I have ever had to do. I know that there is a lot of work to be done but I feel we are finally on the right track. I know that you put a lot of effort into helping…”
My husband and I cannot thank you enough for coming through for our son, when he needed someone like yourself to come for his rescue. Our son is a changed young man – full of confidence and joys of life. It is simply wonderful to see him doing so well and it is all thanks to you.”
My son is doing incredible!! I cannot believe the difference in him. He still has a way to go, but he even knows it and he is just so open and honest with us and himself. I am proud of him. Thank God for all of you that help us realize that we and our kids…”
I will take this opportunity to thank you for all your assistance and support over the last few months. This period could have been most stressful but was not due to your support, cool guidance and highly professional approach.”
I have seen a lot of maturity and sense of responsibility in him. No matter how much I miss him not having him home with the family, both his father and I realize that sending him to boarding school was the best things that we have done for him. The staff is wonderful at his…”
I don’t think I have adequately thanked you for the superb work you did for us this past year. We went from being nowhere, to getting our son into some excellent, superb schools. You should be so proud of what you do, because it’s clearly an art. No rules, but a lot of gut feelings….”
You have already helped him, by giving him hope that his unique voice can be heard and celebrated. Thank you so much for that gift!”
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I just wanted to let you know I could not do any of this without you, and I am so thankful for someone that cared enough to help me become successful.”
I gotta say I couldn’t have done it without you.”