Video interviews have become a standard part of the boarding school and college admissions process, and for good reason. They save families time, widen access for students who live far from campus, and still give admissions officers a real sense of who a student is. But a virtual interview is not simply a conversation with a screen in between. It comes with its own set of expectations, and students who understand them walk in with a real advantage.
Here is what you need to know to help your student prepare with confidence.
Arrive Early, Not Just On Time
Technical issues happen to everyone. A slow connection, a login problem, a webcam that will not cooperate—these things are common, but they are also predictable, which means they are avoidable. We recommend logging into the interview platform at least ten minutes before the scheduled time, testing audio and video, and having a backup plan (a phone number, a second device) in case something goes wrong.
Punctuality signals something bigger than good manners. It tells an admissions officer that this student takes the opportunity seriously, and that matters just as much on a screen as it does in person.
Set the Scene
Every video interview happens in two spaces at once: the conversation itself and the environment around it. Both are being evaluated, whether intentionally or not.
A few practical steps make a real difference:
- Choose a quiet, well-lit room with a neutral background. A bookshelf, a plain wall, or a tidy desk works well; a busy or personal space can be distracting.
- Position the camera at eye level so the student appears centered and engaged, not looking up or down at the lens.
- Do a trial run with a friend or family member beforehand to check lighting, sound, and framing.
- Close other applications and silence notifications so nothing interrupts the flow of conversation.
Protect the Privacy of the Moment
Interruptions are one of the most common (and most avoidable) missteps in a virtual interview. Younger siblings, pets, and household noise can all break the momentum of a strong conversation.
If a quiet, private space is hard to find at home, we often recommend using a school library, a counselor’s office, or another quiet room reserved in advance. Admissions officers understand that families have busy households; what leaves an impression is how a student plans around that reality.
Mind the Details of Presence
On camera, small habits become more noticeable, not less. Fidgeting, avoiding eye contact with the lens, or looking distracted can undercut an otherwise strong answer.
We encourage students to:
- Sit with relaxed, upright posture and use natural hand gestures rather than suppressing them entirely.
- Look at the camera, not the screen, when speaking, since this is what creates the feeling of eye contact.
- Keep a notepad nearby for jotting down thoughts or questions, which reads as engaged rather than distracted.
- Dress as they would for an in-person interview, not just from the waist up. Being fully prepared, not just camera-ready, helps a student feel more composed if they need to stand or reach for something mid-conversation.
Let Genuine Personality Come Through
Polish matters, but so does authenticity. Admissions officers participate in a great number of interviews each season, and the students who stand out are the ones who feel genuinely present, not rehearsed.
We encourage students to relax into the conversation: smile, make eye contact, and respond thoughtfully rather than reciting prepared lines. The goal is not to perform a version of themselves they think the school wants to see. It is to let the admissions officer get to know the student who will actually show up on campus.
Prepare Thoughtful Questions
A virtual interview is a two-way conversation, and a student who arrives with genuine, specific questions demonstrates real interest. Vague or absent questions, on the other hand, can suggest a lack of engagement with the process.
Before the video interview, we recommend students think through:
- What they hope to learn about the school or program’s academics, community, and opportunities
- What matters most to them in choosing where to spend the next several years
- How they would answer common questions about their strengths, challenges, and goals, framed honestly and constructively
A student who has thought about their own goals in advance tends to feel more grounded once the conversation begins.
Do the Research
A small amount of research goes a long way in a virtual interview. Knowing a program’s specific strengths, recent developments, or distinctive offerings allows a student to ask sharper questions and make more meaningful connections to their own goals.
This does not require hours of preparation. A short review of the school or university’s website, recent news, and program details is usually enough to interview with genuine curiosity rather than guesswork.
Close With Intention
How a virtual interview ends matters nearly as much as how it begins. We recommend students be mindful of the interviewer’s time, ask any remaining questions efficiently, and close with a genuine thank you.
A short follow-up email sent later that day or the next morning, thanking the interviewer for their time, is a small gesture that leaves a lasting, positive impression.
The Bigger Picture
A strong virtual interview is not about performing perfectly. It is about giving an admissions officer an honest, well-prepared sense of who a student is, and giving the student a genuine feel for whether that school or program is the right fit for them.
Preparation reduces stress and builds confidence, for the student and for the family supporting them. That is exactly where an experienced consultant can help, walking through mock interviews, reviewing questions in advance, and offering the kind of steady guidance that turns an intimidating milestone into a manageable one.
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